ALIGNED RELATIONSHIP BY DESIGN
You can have the intimate, deeply connected partnership you’ve always dreamed of.
JOIN THE MUST-HAVE RELATIONSHIP DESIGN PROGRAM FOR COUPLES
Aligned Relationship by Design is the only course that shows couples how to design each part of their relationship holistically, so they can experience more intimacy and connection than ever before.
Filled with explorative & playful practices, powerful tools, and plenty of “a-ha!” moments, Aligned Relationship by Design will help you experience a more well-fed connection with your partner — and, in the process, with yourself too!
Does any of this sound familiar to you?
You and your partner have been seeing each other for a while and you’re really into each other. You’re ready to take your relationship to the next level and deepen your commitment.
But you want to be really sure of your compatibility before taking the next step. You want to be sure you’re stepping into your commitment with both eyes open and that you’re truly aligned on all of the things that may be important to you as you move forward.
(Including a lot of things you may not have even thought about yet!)
You want to not only avoid arguments, but set yourself up for the best possible relationship you can have.
Or maybe this is you?
You and your partner have been together for a while. It was (as so many relationships are) amazing in the beginning — but over time, the “hotness” of your connection (read: sex life) has dwindled, a lot of the electricity has gone out of the relationship, and you find yourselves arguing over petty things.
Things aren’t terrible — but they could be a whole lot better! You’re not at all ready to throw in the towel, but you’re also not willing to settle for a mediocre relationship.
You wish there was a fun, playful way that could help you and your partner get clear on each of your desires, while bringing the two of you closer together, and creating a more intimate connection between you.
And it would be amazing if you got to clearly see where your strengths are as a couple so that you could build on them!
Welcome to Aligned Relationship by Design (ARXD)!
Whether you’ve been together for decades or are just beginning coupledom together, embarking on this transformative journey with your partner will allow each of you to be more of who you are — within the relationship and individually — and connect to deep desires that neither of you may have been aware of.
Most people have never intentionally designed their relationship. So when questions or problems arise, we naturally think it’s our partner (or us together) that’s the problem. All that’s needed, though, is a thoughtful. holistic, intentional look at how the relationship is designed. This is where ARXD comes in.
Here’s exactly what you’ll learn inside ARXD.
ARXD is a self-paced online couples’ course, which includes 11 powerful sessions, and 6 weeks of coaching support. As soon as you enroll, you’ll receive the course curriculum to go through at your own pace, and you’ll have lifetime access, too. Keep reading to discover all the details!
Session 1: Limiting Beliefs
In this section, we’ll dispel myths that are blocking your electricity, and walk through ways to create new neural pathways and empowered ideas that serve you both.
Session 4: Home
Your home is potentially your one shared place where you can co-create your collective expressions. It should feel comfortable, safe, and also be a place where you can both feel turned on. In this session you’ll dive into exploratory questions to help you understand what you both want in a home base and be able to co-create it!
Session 7: The Sexy Sex Section
What if you could design your sex life like you do your career, friendships, or home? How would you design the perfect sex life? That’s what we’ll cover in this session. You and your partner both deserve to have a sex life that’s truly in alignment with your desires. Getting clear on this together, through the questions you’ll explore in this session, will help keep the spark alive in your relationship (or renew it) so you don’t fall into a rut that’s dissatisfying to you both.
Session 2: Values
In this session, you’ll learn how to release unrealistic expectations of your partner and get grounded in your core values — both individually and as a couple. You’ll discover a newfound appreciation for each other as you come to discover the deeper values that lie at the heart of who each of you is.
Session 5: Silver & Gold (Money)
The topic of money can be charged. It’s where a lot of people either go unconscious, fight big battles, or just plain avoid the conversation altogether. By having honest and transparent conversations about money in this session, you’ll discover so much about your own and your partner’s values, hopes, and dreams when it comes to money — avoiding arguments and resentments that can damage or even destroy an otherwise healthy relationship.
Session 8: Healthy Wellness
In this session, you’ll get clear on how you want to experience and contribute to your and your partner’s wellness. We’ll talk about the ways in which you can connect around wellness and get clear on your non-negotiables in this area — so you can be sure you aren’t unwittingly creating resentment in each other because of wellness habits (or lack thereof).
Session 10: Spirituality/Community
In this session, you’ll explore what you both want in terms of your spiritual lives and your community and social involvement — both individually and as a couple. You’ll dive into deeper questions that can help eliminate arguments, as you discover and honor the beliefs and engagement styles that work for both of you.
Session 3: Desires
Here, we’ll play unique and FUN desire hunting/visionary games and get into conscious co-creation of your desires as a couple. You’ll be encouraged to take inspired action!
Session 6: Livelihood
In this session, you’ll have clarifying conversations around your and your partner’s professional goals and aspirations. You’ll explore what your professional goals and aspirations are, what you’d like in terms of support from your partner, what your vision for retirement is, and much more.
Session 9: Familia
With family dynamics often being incredibly complex in today’s world (due to blended families, geographical differences, and a host of other reasons why “family” can be a charged issue), you’ll want to be clear on how each of you feels about your family of origin, how much time you each feel you need to spend with your own or your partner’s family, dynamics with children (both current and future), and more.
Session 11: Desire Mapping
Here’s where you’ll design an actual map of your relationship laid out in plain sight. An intentional guide post of your aims. Which may be ever- evolving, that you can update seasonally, quarterly, or yearly.
How it works…
You get immediate access.
As soon as you enroll, you and your partner will receive your personal login information to our ARXD course which is all there, start to finish for you to do on your own time, at your own pace with your partner.
It’s incredibly convenient.
There are no mandatory group calls or community to join. This work can feel really private — plus, who needs a lot of extra work or complication? I know you’re busy!
Set your own pace.
You may choose to go through a few lessons a night for the week (each lesson is only 30 minutes or less — mostly less) or you may choose to do one a week for the next few months. You could even book a day retreat for the two of you and go through the course in a day.
You can opt for community if you like!
If you find that you are desiring a community of like-minded people, you can opt-in to hop on our Lean In Zoom calls held once a week for 6 weeks.
The lessons are short & inspiring!
Each lesson is a short video, coupled with discussion questions and new agreements / inspired ideas to share with your partner.
Coaching is included, too.
If you have Q’s or get stuck on something, you can submit a question on the course website that I will answer once a week for 6 weeks in a recorded video.
Plus you’ll receive these bonuses!
Bonus 1: Q+A
You’ll receive 6 weeks of access to Valarie’s Q + A calls, where you can submit a Q anytime — and once a week, Valarie will answer every single question that comes in.
(Value: $600)
Bonus 3: Lean In Sessions
Lean In sessions are fun, relational games to connect as a community and experience the sensation of truth. They help you expand your capacity for high sensations.
You also get to practice asking questions and cultivate curiosity while staying present.
(Value: Priceless)
Bonus 2: Food Mood Orgasm Journal
Track your all-important health and wellness goals together as a couple!
(Value: $50)
Bonus 4: Resource Guide
Use this Resource Guide to discover unique ways to heal, connect, and develop even more intimacy, long after you’ve completed the course.
(Value: $150)
Total Value: $2500
The course and all of the bonuses you receive are valued at more than $2500, but they are yours today for only $497 (or 3 payments of $175 each).
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What Others Are Saying
“I loved the positive focus on what’s possible and real in a relationship. My biggest takeaway was understanding and validation of my wants and desires. Before the course I felt disenchanted and anxious about relationships and during the course I learned so much about how to have fun learning about my partner.
If you’re on the fence about taking this course, you should join to discover each other more deeply together in a fun and safe manner which covers many aspects of a relationship including all the sexy, sensual play and day to day practical logistics of living in partnership. This is a fun and positively proactive program, much better than therapy appointments as a last ditch effort to save the relationship.”
— Maria L
“What I loved most about ARXD was how carefully and considered it was all set out. The workbook was a wonderful compliment that allowed me to really go off and work on each issue in depth. The mini sessions were just the right length and made sure you were focusing on the right areas, and having an opportunity to dive deeper with live sessions really made this stand out. Valarie’s voice is incredibly soothing and she has a real talent for putting you at ease and seeing right to the heart of the problem.
Previously when looking at ways to improve my relationship I focused on the negatives, but her approach flips this on its head-pushing the positives and the connections to the front. That was a huge breakthrough moment for me. Of course if you focus on the negatives, things will look worse, focusing on your joint shared values and positive qualities puts you in the right frame of mind for real progress.
Before ARXD, I felt like my husband and I were disconnected. During the course I learned so much about having a holistic approach and ways to lead a richer life together.
If you’re on the fence about joining ARXD, make the leap. Dedicating time to heal your relationship will be the best decision you’ve ever made. Being happy with each other is what life is all about.”
— Gemma
“I discovered the many ways that I was contributing to the lack of connection and communication in my relationship and how to change that. Also, that desire is a powerful force.”
— Nancy
Meet Your Course Instructor
I’m Valarie Grossman, and I help couples find their divine spark and develop the loving, supportive relationships they crave.
Through tried-and-true processes that eliminate limiting beliefs, enhance communication and supercharge pleasure, I lead people to uncover their authentic selves and grow in love together.
For years, I suffered in subpar, lackluster relationships, so I decided to set out to address these issues.
My journey led me to discovering my energetic blocks and healing my relationship with myself. Once I did this essential work, I attracted a connected and passionate relationship with my perfect partner.
My work in Holistic Intimacy is supported by my background in other wellness modalities. I believe that healthy partnerships are rooted in sound physical and emotional health, so I bring a wealth of skills to the methods and practices I teach.
In ARXD, I'm honored to share all that I've learned with you, and guide you and your beloved through the process of discovering a truly fulfilling partnership. I have a well-fed relationship, and so can you!
Imagine being totally in sync with your partner — whether you’re just moving in together, or celebrating your 50th anniversary.
What would it be like to have…
A healthy relationship where you feel like you are on the same wavelength with your partner
Pure, honest, authentic connection
Clear and open communication, so you’re able to resolve any issue that comes up
Unshakable security and trust within your relationship
Mutual commitment to learning and growing into the partner each of you wants to be — and supporting each other as you do
The ability to restore your connection even after a big argument
Consistent closeness and passion
A free and confident feeling during intimacy (while knowing your partner is enjoying it too!)
Tons of love and approval for each other
Your relationship can include all of this, and more, when you design it intentionally.
Aligned Relationship by Design:
A Course That Can Change The Course of Your Relationship
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A deeply intimate connection with your intimate partner…
The feeling of being seen and understood by someone like never before…
And the strongest and most unbreakable connection you can imagine.
Sound amazing?
It’s possible for you, with the knowledge and tools you’ll get inside ARXD!
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FAQs
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Yes! ARXD is not just for anyone in a committed relationship — but anyone considering a committed relationship, too! You’re welcome to join and deepen your exploration as you consider whether to commit further.
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It can be incredibly costly to be misaligned in relationship — either because of therapy appointments, wasted money trying to piecemeal solutions together, or even the expense of moving in (or out) based on how well your relationship is going. Weigh the costs and ask yourself — can I afford not to be aligned in my relationship?
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We all have more time than we think. You can stop spending time on things that don’t take priority — like Netflix or Instagram. I suggest scheduling space in your calendar and prioritizing doing the course. If it’s not scheduled it won’t happen. You’ll find that the lessons are fun and super connecting!
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This course has been designed so that it can be completed in an entire day, but I encourage you to take as much time as you need for you both to thoroughly move through the content together.
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You don’t have to show up live for anything in this course! The coaching calls are pre-recorded for your convenience, so there’s no need to coordinate your schedule to show up anywhere “on time.” Each week for 6 weeks, the calls are pre-recorded made accessible on the site.
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Possibly, but if you haven't done it by now, chances are you’ll never get around to it. Not because you don’t have the skills or smarts, but because it would take a lot of time and research to integrate everything on your own, while I’ve already packaged it up in an easy (and fun) to digest format.
Plus, everything grows inside a container — and maybe a container like this is what you need to actually do the work?
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Once you enroll in the course, your enrollment is final and no refunds will be given.
I fully commit to you, and ask that you bring that same level of commitment here. Please take some time to review the course info and make sure it resonates fully with you before you enroll. You’ll have lifetime access to this course.
ARXD is for couples who are truly serious about bringing intentionality and deepening connection to their relationship.
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No problem! Shoot me an email at valarie@holisticwellnesskeys.com, and I’ll get back to you ASAP!
Who is this course ideal for?
ARXD is perfect for couples who…
Want / crave a truly well-fed, sustainable connection
Want a framework to help them reflect on how they want their relationship to be and who they want to be within the relationship — without falling back into previous patterns
Want a deeper, stronger, better connection — but don’t know where to start
Thought they were in alignment but have started to discover they don’t exactly match up — and who’d like to get aligned!
Have evolved so much since their initial connection (individually or together) that their original “agreements” need to be revisited to match who they’re now becoming
Are tired of just hoping things will just magically work out on their own, and are ready to do something about their situation